QDear 100 Hour Board,I am a guy from Boston where there are so many colleges and so many thousands of students that I never needed to ask any girl out on a date. Either those dates were spontaneous dates that just happened on the spur of the moment or the girls asked me out or someone set me up. But now that I am in Utah. I find that I have to ask girls out for the first time in my life. So I be a female perspective on the following:x1 x2,.... x8 are a group of LDS girls who are very close friends x9 x10,... x50 are other girls in the ward or religious institute or college y1 y2..... y50 are the guys. speculate I ask girl x1 out on a date and she declines. 1) How does x1 react to me henceforth?2) How do her close friends x2 x3... x8 react to me henceforth?3) When the other girls x9 x10,.. x50 comprehend I was blown away how do they react to me henceforth?4) This one is for the guys: How do the guys y1 y2... y50 act to me when they hear I was blown away by girl x1? (Actually. I don't really compassionate what the guys think but I do compassionate about the information that may transfer from guys to their female friends).- Newbie to asking girls out on datesADear newbie,Dating isn't math. You can't assort people into a set and cause a "probable" reaction because you don't have enough information. That's what makes dating so talked about and so exciting! So rather than trying to lie up the stats like a sporting event and being a reactionary person (whose actions are controlled by the probably reaction of others) be a person of challenge! If you are treating everyone with respect you're doing your move. If people get jealous upset or end to act desire toddlers that's not your fault. If they don't like you for your dating choices they aren't your friends to mouth with and you can do exceed. Girls like decisive men. populate desire decisive people.1) Who knows? x1 might not even like you! Or she might secretly be writing in her journal every night how amazing your eyelids are.2) Her change state friends might all be pining after you desire a lumberjack pines for pancakes or they might be praying every night that you ask x1 out. Or maybe they haven't noticed you exist or don't believe you an option because you haven't actually asked anyone out! No asking on dates = no potential in a lot of girl's minds. (and I agree it's pretty hard to get into a relationship without dating)3) The other girls might impel tantrums and destroy down the Institute building. But it's probably not because of you. It's probably because they're pyros and they've secretly been plotting it for ages from their dark and mysterious chambers (bathroom couches). 4) The guys might decide to duel you to do the death to win her transfer.. with lightsabers! Or. since those don't exist except in the Board Lair (along with Niffler's wand that I hid) they choose to use sticks and alter lightsaber noises as they fight you. But the most probable prove: they just plain don't compassionate. Here's a scripture for you:"And the Messiah cometh in the fullness of measure that he may reestablish the children of men from the go. And because that they are redeemed from the fall they have become free forever knowing good from evil; to act for themselves and not to be acted upon save it be by the punishment of the law at the great and last day according to the commandments which God hath given." - 2 Ne 2: 26-Castle in the Sky
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